Just to be yourself

The flute, silk, Mrs. Reed since the childhood special sensitive and shy, her body has been too fat, and her face made her look fat still than the actual. The flute silk has a very old-fashioned mother, she believes that the clothes make beautiful is a very stupid things. She is always on the flute silk said: "good wear off, narrow clothing is liable to crack." And my mother always as this sentence to help Iraq flute silk dress. So, the flute silk never and other children to do outdoor activity, don't even physical education classes. She was very shy, feel and other people are "different", completely unlikable.
When I grew up, the flute silk to marry a older than her several years old man, but she has not changed. Her husband's family are all very good, also full of confidence. The flute silk utmost efforts to like them, but she can't do. They in order to make the flute silk and cheerful every thing, only made her more shrink back to her shell. The flute silk become nervous, stay away from all of the bad situation to her friend, even afraid of heard the doorbell ring. The flute silk to know oneself is a loser, and afraid of her husband will find this, so each time they appeared in public, she pretended to very happy, and were often do too much in it. Afterwards, the flute for the sad silk will for several days. Finally not happy to make her feel to go on living what also have no reason, the flute silk started to think suicide.
Later, is what change the not happy woman life? Just a freely say. Freely words, changed the flute silk whole life, make her completely a changed man.
One day, her mother-in-law is talk about how she educated her children, she said: "no matter how things, I always asking them to stay original."
"Stay true!" Is this sentence! At that moment, the flute silk between they found themselves so distressing, is because she has been trying to let oneself suitable for a is not for its own way.
The flute silk later recalled: "I the whole change overnight....... I started to stay true. I try to study my own individuality, their own advantages, and try my best to learn colour and dress, as far as possible to suit my knowledge of the way to wear clothes. To voluntarily make friends, I attended a community organization-at first is a small society-they let me to participate in activities and make me frightened. But every time I speak, increased a little courage. Today I all the joy, is I never thought that could get. In the breeding my own children, I always take me from a painful experience of what you learn in the results to teach them: 'no matter how things, total want to stay original.'"
Warm enlightenment: want to live happy, the most important is to keep himself. You can only sing your song, you can draw your own pictures, you can only do a by your experience and your environment and your family created you. Whether good or bad, you have to create his own their own small garden; Whether good or bad, you have to in the life of the symphony, play your own little Musical Instruments.